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It’s taken me a LONG time to learn this but I finally got it:
If I have to shrink myself to be in relationship with people,
those are NOT my people.
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And time & time again—you know what leads us to shrink?
DESPERATION.
Wanting so badly to be friends/partners/lovers with the first people who come along, simply because we’re afraid that there won’t be anything left for US when it’s our time.
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We’ve been told that we’re too difficult. Too intimidating. Too picky. Too demanding. Never satisfied. And that we’re gonna end up alone, if we’re not “careful”.
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But I say, fuck “careful”.
Fuck anything that stands in your face & constantly tells you that who you are isn’t enough. That you should settle for less than what lights your soul up or allow others to minimize your spirit just so you can “get chose”.
That’s too great a price to pay, y’all.
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But don’t be fooled—refusing to shrink requires SACRIFICE.
You won’t fit in most places. You’ll have to walk alone, often. People won’t always understand you. You’ll seem weird. And bitchy. And just, in general, too damn much.
Refuse to shrink anyhow.
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There is enough for you to have what I want, for me to have what I want, for Raquel to have what she wants, for Jennifer to get what she wants, for Kenny to have what he wants....and every other person in this world & there will STILL be an overflow available. That’s what it means to serve an infinite God.
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So be bold & transparent & ask all the questions & sing at the top of your lungs & wear shit that doesn’t match and...just do your own thing. The goal is to be so clear—and visible—about who you are that when that next friend/biz partner/lover looks at you they say IMMEDIATELY: “Damn—you are EXACTLY what I was looking for.”
And they mean it.
❤️🙌🏾✨

Living MY “best life” looks like a lot of things. And while it’s always undergirded by my Core Personal Values, my answer can change at any moment, depending on where I am in my life. I’m learning that there is no ONE “best life” to live—for me, there are many.
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Like right now.
I FEEL like I’m living my best life.
Even my cells feel it.
Things are not perfect (WHYYYY do we always feel the need to make that statement??), but they are PURPOSEFUL. I’m living on purpose in a DEEPER way than I ever have before. And that’s MY best life.
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I launched “The Fuck Shit Up Crew” (FSU Crew), my beta group coaching program, & I LOVE the 9 women I attracted. I’m learning how to teach & share my gift in a wider way. #BestLife
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I’m launching a local Atlanta dinner series because again—PURPOSE + COMMUNITY—& it’s something I’ve wanted to do forever. Finally the time is “right” (meaning, Dayka isn’t in her own way anymore).
More best life breadcrumbs.
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I’m off to my 2nd home next month (Marrakech) for a special experience that, moving forward, has the potential to change so much of life personally & professionally. AND I AM GEEKED! The fact that I GET to travel, guide, teach & create for a living still blows my mind. #BestLife
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I’ve invested in therapy & coaches & coaching programs that have made a HUGE difference for me this year. Pushing myself to do what I‘d been telling myself I could NOT do has been a game changer. I’m not the same woman I was 6 mos ago, b/c I started investing in where I WANTED to go, vs. where I am. And now look....25 steps closer. #BestLife
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Anyway, I’ve been off the ‘gram all week (working, duh), so I wanted to pop back on & celebrate MYSELF. And to remind you to take stock of where YOU are now & how far you’ve come in your OWN life. Because there is no such thing as “there”—there’s only “here”. This moment. This breath. Right now.
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Things can change y’all but...YOU GOTTA CHANGE THEM FOR YOURSELF! No one is coming to save you. Stop worrying about not being good enough, who’s looking at you or who’s NOT checking for you. Just go do what you’re being called to do. Talking about what you CAN’T do is boring—let’s start talking about what you CAN do. Boom

This.
THIS.
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I firmly believe that a lot of times when we speak out in anger/frustration/irritation, we’re so quick to respond to our PAIN that we never even take a breath to
🤚🏾STOP 🤚🏾
& dive into figuring out what’s REALLY underneath our emotions.
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And this is how “Love” gets a bad wrap.
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Because LOVE itself, knows all, solves all, speaks all, IS all.
But love without TRUST???
Now that’s a fucking train wreck.
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TRUST is essential to EVERY relationship, even the casual ones. On some level, we’re still making trust agreements with our casual friends/biz associates/fellow humans.
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But the more INTIMATE your relationship, the more it requires trust ABUNDANTLY—pressed down, shaken together & running over.
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And if you don’t have that— but you (dangerously) don’t REALIZE that a lack of trust is your issue—you’ll run around here like K Michelle saying all men are “bad” & love is a “joke”, when the fact of the matter is, YOU’VE just been CHOOSING partners who were not capable of your trustworthiNESS.
And then THEIR untrustworthiness is evidenced by their behavior. ‘Cause there’s always evidence.
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But instead of doing the self awareness work to say,
“Oh. Actually, I put my trust in someone who was not worthy of it because they had not EARNED it. Let ME course correct.”
You say stuff like, “These dudes are dogs. There are no good men out there. These women just want me to take them out to expensive dinners but have NOTHING to offer in return.”
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And Dayka is over here like:
“No. Nah. YOUR experience is a reflection of YOUR choosing. So if you WANT better, choose better. And stop putting your FRAGILE TRUST in people who CLEARLY have not earned it. Maybe THAT will change your narrative.”
BOOM.
May the Lord add a blessing to the hearers of this word. ✨
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Also!
Today is the LAST DAY to join The FSU Crew, my new Beta group coaching program, until the doors open again in 2020. If you want to learn how to THINK different—so you can BE different—DM me your email address for a private invitation. Doors close at 11:59pm or whenever my last remaining 4 spots are filled!
#SoDayka

Join me for my NEW 12 week group coaching program, The FSU CREW!!!
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Over the last few months quite a few women have been urging me to create a community for women like you, who want MORE:
-more authentic experiences
-more joyful relationships
-more freedom in your schedule
-more fun in your body
-more health in your home
-more traveling the world
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And this is where The FSU Crew comes in. Because if there’s ONE THING I’m UNDENIABLY AMAZING at, it’s helping people get CRYSTAL CLEAR about what’s truly blocking their progress, REFRAMING their sabotaging narratives & creating STRATEGIC plans to help you move forward in the life you actually DO want.
Versus staying stuck in one you don’t.
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With (2) live, group coaching calls each month PLUS Hot Seats, weekly video teachings, mini courses & more, the only question you really need to ask yourself is—
How much do YOU want to change your life by January 2020??? And what are you willing to DO & INVEST to get there?? 👀
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Because this is a 12 week BETA program I’m limiting this membership to only 10 women for an intimate & unique experience! And since I launched to my private coaching clients first, a few slots have already been taken!
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If you’d like more info, DM ME with your EMAIL ADDRESS for a private invitation ASAP. But hurry—doors close this Sunday at 11:59pm & won’t open again until JANUARY 2020!!

Went out 2 nights in a row this weekend & now you better believe I won’t be doing annnnnyyyyyyything today!! 😩😩
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Woke up really wanting a bagel & lox but was NOT about to leave my house, so I made a Paleo waffle & now I’m about to spend the rest of the day watching foreign movies, sleeping & doing some work.
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Would love to go kayaking today but unless some is gonna ride with me...that’s a no. ‘Cause I DEF ain’t got the strength today!! 🌊🤣🤣
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What’s up w/ y’all?? 👀

....You don’t REALLY need me to clarify this, do you??? 👀

Sometimes your desire to have something so desperately is the very energy that keeps it just out of your reach.
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Especially when it comes to things like love relationships, health, babies, career recognition/acknowledgement & personal acceptance.
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You DESPERATELY want to be seen, understood, acknowledged, recognized, valued & appreciated...but that desperation is doing the exact OPPOSITE of what you’re praying for. •
Yeah, desire can be a great behavioral motivator but....it can also drive you to do some stupid, incongruent, desperate, shitty, irrational, nonsensical and even fucked up things, if you’re not tuned into YOU & paying close attention. •
You gotta find just the right balance between knowing when to PRESS & when to PAUSE but the thing is—that line is different for each of us. And THAT is why it’s sooooo important for you to REALLY get to know your emotional landscape.
Intimately.
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Because what works for me may not be the right methodology for you.
What worked for her may not be the right strategy for you.
And what worked for them may actually put you deeper in a hole than the one you’re in now.
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My poison is not yours....and vice versa •
So with all things, practice PATIENCE & DISCERNMENT.
Because most of the time your downfall comes from an attack
on the INSIDE....not some random, external threat.
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Everything isn’t for you.
Don’t kill yourself trying to make believe otherwise.

ARE YOU READY TO: •Step out of your comfort zone & embrace a TRANSFORMATIVE new experience? •Stop being STUCK in the same place you were last year?? •Finally put YOURSELF first in YOUR life? •Embark on a transformative soul searching journey to help you become the BEST version of yourself?
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If so, then you need to join me this November in Marrakech, Morocco, for my last retreat of the year.
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Come be “Lost & Found” with me!
Click the link in bio to reserve your seat!

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