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Last year I reconnected with an ollllllld friend & together we embarked on an amazing sexual journey, the likes of which I’ve never had before.
My experience with him COMPLETELY changed everything I knew about sex & intimacy. It is, single-handedly, the reason why I now know how important sex work is. It’s why I continue to articulate to anyone who will listen that “sex” and “intimacy” are NOT the same thing.
And that just because you’re having ONE doesn’t mean you’re automatically getting the other.
Do not be fooled.
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Being offered a body is one thing but being offered a SOUL is....well, that’s something totally different. And in a nutshell, that’s what intimacy is.
It’s SOUL WORK.
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Intimacy doesn’t happen without vulnerability. Without trust. Without safety. Without honesty. The dance of sexual intimacy can’t be SOLELY about masculine energy—because it requires that both masculine AND feminine be present for balance—so we have to stop letting the masculine set the tone for what happens in sexual creation.
They don’t know it all.
Many of them know very little.
But more importantly, earth-shattering sexual intimacy is it’s really about two fully present people/energies coming together to create more than they could create alone (and no, I’m not talking about a baby).
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Every time I left those moments with him, I felt like how I look in this picture. And I decided that I wouldn’t settle for less moving forward, because I can’t act like I don’t know better anymore.
I DO. 🙌🏾
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It can be hard to really BELIEVE there‘s more out there for you until find it for yourself but let me be the first to affirm—Sis, THERE IS SOOOO MUCH MORE OUT THERE FOR YOU!!! Sex is SO MUCH more than penetration & orgasms but desire alone won’t help you experience it.
Read/watch everything you can get your hands on.
Study the art of intimacy to educate yourself.
Partner with people with similar goals & values.
But most importantly, love YOU.
Then sit back & watch the fireworks happen.💥⚡️💦
#SoDayka

Maybe it’s not really that you “don’t have enough money”....
...maybe it’s actually that you have too much shit you don’t actually NEED. 🧐
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Last year—before intestinal issues & the IRS got the best of me—I was planning to move to Spain for....as long as I could make it happen.
Had the airline ticket purchased & everything.
And in preparation for that move, I started downsizing my house because I wanted to be LIGHTER & I just felt like I had too much stuff.
8 sets of linen napkins.
7 sets of dishware (various sizes).
Lots of vintage books for “styling purposes”, plus tons of table lamps, old magazines, extra fabric for throw pillows, too many sheets/towels, etc.
It all was starting to feel like too much.
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My last minute decision to cancel my trip to Madrid kinda put a halt on my “downsizing/minimalization” kick but I woke up this morning feeling the need to get back to it.
Because the truth is,
I don’t need all of this shit.
I have a comfortable, beautiful house filled with pretty things but I don’t want these things to feel like a noose around my neck. I want to feel like I’m living with beautiful things I need & LOVE—not extras of everything in preparation for events that may never happen.
So I’m gonna start letting things go again. And I’m excited.
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There is a difference between not having what you need vs. not having enough of what you THINK you need.
Make sure you know the difference before you open your mouth to say you don’t have “enough”.
You’re welcome. 😉
#SoDayka

Newsflash:
“Refinement” is a really important personal evolution tool that doesn’t get nearly enough credit. Clarity often comes disguised as “failure” & “rejection” but....it’s really EMPOWERMENT.
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Failure & rejection help us to identify the areas where we need to pivot & make changes in who we are, how we show up & the people/ideas/careers/relationships that aren’t the best fit for who we’re striving to become.
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The refining process encourages us to pay attention to what doesn’t feel good—expansive or creative—and the people who don’t feel invested in or supportive of who we are. Right now.
But the only way we’re ever gonna have a sliver of a chance to get where we ultimately dream of going is to PAY ATTENTION TO THESE THINGS.
Pay attention. Pay attention. Pay attention.
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Everything is data.
Analyze it. Interpret it. And use it to fuel your next move. Because no matter how you define success, one thing is for sure—no one really becomes one on accident.
#SoDayka

I didn’t think I’d return to Bali so soon but when I realized I could create an opportunity for YOU to have a different kind of transformative, intimate experience there it IMMEDIATELY felt like the thing to do.
So I created it.
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Lost & Found Bali is a bit different from my Marrakech retreat—new locales call for new ways of being—but my INTENTION is the same: To create life-changing opportunities for adventurous women to uncover new parts of themselves through the joy of travel. That intention will never change.
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So I’m super exited to get to know you while we lounge at the pool in our private villa while the chef prepares our special dinner just a few steps away.
Right off the Indian Ocean.
In Bali.
Interested in learning more?? Click the link in bio for full details. ✈️

Alright, friends:
Lost & Found BALI is set for MAY 2019 & launches on Monday!!
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You, me + a fully staffed private villa just off the Indian Ocean.
8 days.
7 nights.
Massages & yoga & specially prepared meals & relaxing so hard until you just can’t relax anymore.
IN BALI.
Super excited about this.
Stay tuned!! ✨✨

It was decided once & for all that we’re never gonna date.
So immediately after that I—naturally—asked him if he had any available friends.
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He told me to “fuck off”.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
#RealFriendsRealLife
*EDIT*: Please recognize that this is a JOKE.
Yes—he’s serious about not helping me find a man since he knows it’s not gonna be him—but his delivery was comedic & intentional, reflective of the type of relationship we have. I don’t hang out with/associate with or ATTRACT the type of men who would EVER seriously speak to a woman like this.
Ever.
Let alone speak to me like that. Just FYI.

Are you AVAILABLE to be loved?
Are you OPEN to INTIMACY?
Can you articulate the ways you add VALUE & QUALITY to someone’s life??
If not, you have ZERO BUSINESS being in the dating pool. And if you just want some sex & OCCASIONAL companionship, make sure you say that DIRECTLY.
Loud & clear.
Otherwise, please know yourself enough to know that you not really ready for anything else.
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NEVVVVVVER be afraid to ask a potential lover what he/she brings to the table—we should all be able to articulate that about ourselves. Because your mate will never be able to add to your life if they aren’t even clear about what they have to offer another human being in partnership.
And if they don’t know, you can’t either.
Thank you for coming to my TED talk. God Bless. ✌🏾
#SoDayka

*Flips inside the mag*
Hallelujah for not just one but TWO full pages in the August 2018 issue of @mlinteriorsatl.
Thankful.
Thankful.
Thankful.
#SoDayka

The very week I got back from a month in Marrakech & Madrid I received an email from Lauren, the EIC of @mlinteriorsatl, asking me to be part of this issue & in the moment it felt like I was literally running from one thing to the next. But we had a great, easy shoot & I’m thrilled to be featured in this beautiful August issue of Modern Luxury Interiors Atlanta, on newsstands now.
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Just because I don’t often post about my design work doesn’t mean I’m not out here still doing it. It’s just that I’m also opening my hands to all of the OTHER ways God has expanded my reach. But being recognized as a creative is something that never, ever gets old. I used to pray for a way to do this work everyday and 9 years later....I not only have what I prayed for, but my vision has grown even BIGGER. To include things I didn’t even know I wanted.
Always grateful for the opportunity to be seen & celebrated for that which comes to me naturally. ❤️
#DaykaRobinsonDesigns

A big part of “telling the truth” is being honest about where you are in ANY GIVEN MOMENT.
Yes, it’s important to want greater/be manifesting more, but it’s also okay to say:
“That’s beyond my budget right now.”
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And that statement is so powerful—not because someone’s “publicly telling all their financial business”—but because there’s authenticity & honesty in telling the truth about RIGHT NOW.
And we desperately need more of that.
‘Cause when given the chance, most of y’all don’t do it.
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For almost every single person on this earth, there is ALWAYS something out of their financial reach...and it’s OKAY to acknowledge that.
More importantly, being honest about where we are in our lives helps to strengthen personal integrity, both with ourself & with others. We need to know that we can count on ourselves AND our people to tell the truth when it matters most.
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So let’s try this again:
is it REALLY “too expensive”.....or is your reality that you can’t AFFORD it right now??🤔

I. Love. This. Place. 🌞
#SoDayka